Most women have no idea – I want to include the innocent middle woman here – and would probably like to know this information since it really has a huge impact on how they are viewed, and treated. It involves them very deeply, and they have a right to know all the information. You can only make a truly informed decision if you have all the facts laid out in front of you.
So, here I am, wishing you every possible happiness, and hoping you don’t hate me for telling you these things. (Maybe you won’t, after all… I would personally want to know this… ) And if you do hate me well, I’ll still pray for you.
Lets begin with the secular medias find, since they are pretty adament about women being able to wear whatever they want, no matter if there are consequences. I think this way the information will be a bit less biased and more informative.
Bikinis Make Men See Women as Objects, Scans Confirm
A new study presented at the recent American Association for the Advancement of Science meeting in Chicago shows that when men see photos of scantily clad women their brain registers the women as objects to be acted on. Christie Nicholson reports
Men see bikini-clad women as objects, psychologists say
Sex objects: Pictures shift men’s view of women
Men view half-naked women as objects, study finds
That’s pretty wierd right? Here’s another article that is based on the same information, I’ll paste the entire thing so you can read it here:
The Science of Bikinis
It’s summertime, and the livin’ is supposed to be easy. I hope you’ve made time for some summer fun in the next few weeks, but one thing that can really pull the brakes on a carefree summer is swimsuit shopping.
Yes, I’ve been to the stores this season and I do know that finding a suit that is body flattering and affordable is really tough. Add to that God’s desire for us to dressmodestly, and the waters of swimwear fashion can get muddy in a hurry.
We are going to hover on the subject of swimwear for the next several days because I know it is a hot topic (pun intended!) and one that requires us to revisit God’s Word often. Tomorrow I will appeal to the heart of the matter, but today I am interested in waking up your brains!
Some fascinating new research helps us answer the age-old question on whether Christians should wear bikinis. A recent Princeton University study researched the reaction of a group of men to images of people in various states of dress. They were shown images of modestly dressed men and women and images of sexualized, scantily clad women (i.e. women in bikinis). The heads of the people in the photographs were cropped off so the test subjects could not focus on faces, hair, expressions, etc., only on the subjects’ bodies and clothing.
Here’s what researchers found:
Finding #1: Bikinis = Object Mentality
Brain scans revealed that when men are shown pictures of scantily clad women, the region of the brain associated with tools (such as screwdrivers, hammers, etc.) lit up. When reporting this specific result, analysts at National Geographic concluded that bikinis really do inspire men to see women as objects, as something to be used rather than someone to connect with. A good question to consider as you think about this finding is when it comes to your relationships with boys, do you want to be used or do you want to be known? Of course you picked option B … so you’d better keep reading.
Finding #2: Bikini ≠ Empathy
Some of the men showed zero brain activity in the medial prefrontal cortex, which is that part of the brain that lights up when a person ponders another person’s thoughts, intentions, and feelings. Researchers called this particular finding “shocking” because they almost never see this specific section of the brain shut down in this way.
This means that these men see women “as sexually inviting, but they are not thinking about their minds,” said Susan Fiske a psychologist at Princeton University. “The lack of activation in this social cognition area is really odd, because it hardly ever happens.”
In other words, seeing a woman dressed immodestly creates a very rare reaction in the male brain by actually shutting a part of it down. But it is the part of the brain that we want to see functioning—that part that allows the men around us to think about our thoughts and feelings. It’s the exact part of the brain that makes a guy want to know us!
Finding #3: A Bikini Changes Who’s In Control
In a separate Princeton study, when men viewed images of women in bikinis they often associated with first person action verbs including “I push, I grab.” But when they saw images of women dressed modestly, they associated them with third-person action verbs such as “she pushes, she grabs.”
In other words, for the women in bikinis the men desired control. When the women were modestly dressed, the men associated the woman with being in control.
Finding #4: Bikinis Are Memorable
Of all the images that were shown, the women in bikinis were most memorable to the test subjects. Most of the men in the study remembered the photographs of women in bikinis most clearly even if they had only seen the image for two-tenths of a second (that is less time than it took you to read between these parentheses).
That may feel like a crash course in brain research, but there are some significant applications to be made toward the way that we dress, especially as the mercury rises.
There is much more to unpack here, and we will tackle it together over the next several days. But before you start to comment, let me head a few thoughts off at the pass.
- If this research makes men sound like cavemen, I assure you that is not the essence of the findings. No one is asserting that bikinis cause a biological instinct to act out toward women and ignore their feelings, but there is hard data here about the way our clothes affect the male brain.
- The knowledge that you have the kind of allure that can make you memorable is powerful indeed. But just because you know you’ve got it doesn’t mean you should flaunt it. We will talk about why in tomorrow’s post.
Soooo I don’t know about you? But I personally would never want a man to view me in that way! Of course, if a guy is really perverted it won’t matter how I dress; he’ll still be a pervert! But the fact of the matter is… there ARE decent guys out there; and when it comes to things of the brain, its not something you can usually control. Especially if its something that comes semi-“natural instinct”. We are naturally designed to “multiply the earth”, the thing is… we are not just “mammals”, we are human beings with a soul. We are children of God. Our bodies are something very sacred; made in the IMAGE of God! We ought to give God the respect He deserves and follow His law right? Right. So, my point is; why would I wear something that I knew that could man a man think of me as an object like that? If I covered up; I wouldn’t be at fault if he still was a pervert, PLUS, the sacrifice of giving up the bikini (if it could be considered a sacrifice.. to not wear one…ha!) could perhaps save this man’s soul from ETERNAL damnation! That’s pretty huge.
As women, one of our extremely important roles are to guide men to greatness by our examples and our actions (and save their souls by our prayers and sacrifices… look at SAINT MONICA!) If I can take that first step of thinking of the other person; of offering up a sacrifice, a prayer for his soul (and Mine!) … wouldn’that please God more than if I just went along with the world and wore my bikini anyway? Even if it meant that the man would be in danger of falling into mortal sin, because of me? Yikes…. Life isn’t forever, but eternity is .. well.. ETERNITY. Its going to be either heaven or hell; and personally, I’d rather take the long road here than have to suffer on the other side forever if I have ever made a terrible mistake along the way.
I know, this probably sounds pretty crazy, and I’m not trying to force you into anything. I’m just saying. This is something that I personally have made a firm decision on, and I hope that just this information is helpful to you. Now that you know all this; what will YOU do?
God bless, until next time dear reader !